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Dear igive advice,
hello, well.i saw your message on my friends bulletin board at myspae.com, and I thought I'd give "asking you" a try. right now I am at the Philippines and my boyfriend is in the states.. we talk through phone and messenger... and sometimes I get letters from him through mail.. to make the long story short, I am not content with what we have, cause.... none of our friends know about us, and I dont want the news coming from me, and I think he doesnt want it to come out yet... because of a particular reason.. I talked to him about it, several times.. but he keeps telling me to be patient, or that time will come that he'll tell them.. and you know.. maybe every reason in the world has been given to me... and all I can do is to be understanding.. cause I really love him, and... well, sometimes, I doubt if he's even serious about us, or me... what do you think? I dont want him to get pissed off, cause Im so nosey... and I dont want him to do anything that he's not ready for.. and Im a little confused... help me...
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Dear confused,
thank you for telling me all this and supporting my xanga.
Its hard to have a relationship with a person who obviously doesnt know what he wants. Whatever his reasons are, I suggest you consider it all... you stay as understanding as you are and I think you should be patient. I am sure he would like to explain to you his reasons and I believe it isnt appropriate for him to do this on the phone or the messenger. but if you think you cannot hold on to him because youre unsure of his feelings.. tell him. and if he loves you he'll do something about it. either you let go of each other or you guys work it out as a couple... dont carry everything for things to work it out, you guys must share your issues. the important thing is to be honest and there shouldnt be any hard feelings whatever may happen.
I hope I helped you. Anyways, keep on supporting this xanga... hope to hear from you soon.
love,
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